Hypnosis for peace

Hey there,

I think I have a problem with my expections of women… I’ll say a bit about myself first: I’m not ugly, though my self-esteem isn’t exactly fantastic I’ll acknowledge that, I take care of my hygiene, I work on my appearance (and a little too much on my hair), my eyes are a nice bright bluey green, I’m 5,11 and thin. I don’t have a problem when I cam with girls on sites like chatroulette but of course, real life is a different story.

I’m attracted to Indian/Arab girls, whites don’t really interest me, neither does any other race, I am white and my friends find it kind of worrying that I just can’t bring myself to show any interest in non-Indians, I literally feel *nothing*. I am thus stuck in an akward position as I just don’t bother to get to know white girls and I rarely find myself in a position where I can get to know an Indian girl… So it’s a problem of high-standards.

I’m not shy, I’m just reserved and frankly pretty clueless when it comes to girls and women… I’ve only ever found myself interested in two girls in my 18 years on this earth and didn’t make it with either one, nerves weren’t a problem… just general scripting, when I do talk to a girl (who happens to be Asian) I’m left with little to say, I just don’t click with a lot of people… And most of the time I never even start talking to them in the first place! It’s just plain cluelessness. The only girls whom I can get a rappore with are the nerdy white girls… One of whom I would *love* to be attracted to but just can’t muster up any feelings for :-/

Does this sound like something I need to rectify? How can I go about it? Hypnotherapy?

Or maybe some of you can tell me how a reserved nerd (who plays Warhammer 40,000) can find an Indian girl who isn’t "above him"?

I’m probably the girl version of you and i don’t think it’s shallow or anything to worry about it. Keep looking you’ll find someone but don’t ever force your self to like anyone or muster up feelings for. Go for someone you like and remember to always give everyone a chance just don’t force feelings for anyone.

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